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Lilly 23rd July 2019 08:10 PM

I am still waiting for Return road (A)gain

Evan Odinson 23rd July 2019 10:08 PM

I feel like "LOVE, once again" or "LOVE, one more time" sound way better but still the same feeling lol

Chris85 24th July 2019 02:50 AM

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Originally Posted by Aderianu (Post 3303996)
, I was sure ayu's dating KO before.

So, they broke up and he officially "failed the audition" and left?

Aderianu 24th July 2019 08:00 AM

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Originally Posted by Chris85 (Post 3304015)
So, they broke up and he officially "failed the audition" and left?

Who knows. I was really surprised when he left after new audition, he's talented maybe more than someone who stayed

Chris85 24th July 2019 08:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Aderianu (Post 3304025)
Who knows. I was really surprised when he left after new audition, he's talented maybe more than someone who stayed

Yes, it seemed very odd.

tokyoxjapanxfan 24th July 2019 10:59 AM

I met KO at a gay bar. He was all over a male friend. Not saying he’s one or the other, but just mentioning it lol.

koumori 24th July 2019 12:16 PM

Ayu seems really close to her troupe. So close that they organised a book of nude art of themselves for her back in the day :laugh Their relationship seems very bubbled from what we would consider normal, probably because they spend so much time together both professionally and personally. Flirting, having fun, and being comfortable in various intimate scenarios seem normalised.

So, with that said, it's hard to know what is normal for Ayu and what is more romantic :shrug I have no idea about the dynamics going on between her employees and herself, or if she really sees them as employees anymore (and that's another subject). So I find it hard to put a ton of stock into rumours before she confirms them herself.

I think it was a bad move to hold hands with Pei in public, because of her fame. That sounds unfair to her but it's the truth. Whatever their relationship, they will now be under a lot of scrutiny, and she hasn't decided to take control of the narrative yet through a blog post or news statement. It is what it is.

Chris85 24th July 2019 12:29 PM

Haters must be pleased. They've been saying for years that she's making headlines not because of her music, but because of her messy private life.
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Originally Posted by tokyoxjapanxfan (Post 3304041)
I met KO at a gay bar. He was all over a male friend. Not saying he’s one or the other, but just mentioning it lol.

Did you talk or observe?

tokyoxjapanxfan 24th July 2019 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Chris85 (Post 3304055)
Haters must be pleased. They've been saying for years that she's making headlines not because of her music, but because of her messy private life.

Did you talk or observe?

I said hi, as he was talking to my friend lol

JinHamasaki 24th July 2019 03:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Koumori (Post 3304054)


I think it was a bad move to hold hands with Pei in public, because of her fame. That sounds unfair to her but it's the truth. Whatever their relationship, they will now be under a lot of scrutiny, and she hasn't decided to take control of the narrative yet through a blog post or news statement. It is what it is.

Zooming in on her super-reflective glasses, I don't see reflections of paparazzi or other camera people. It looks like she is looking at another building? I wonder if this is taken from someone's personal security camera.

koumori 24th July 2019 05:13 PM

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Originally Posted by JinHamasaki (Post 3304064)
Zooming in on her super-reflective glasses, I don't see reflections of paparazzi or other camera people. It looks like she is looking at another building? I wonder if this is taken from someone's personal security camera.

It's more likely a high zoom lense. Paparazzi prefer them these days.

owlflight 26th July 2019 03:32 AM

It looks like she is holding his wrist and not really his hand. Could be wrong though.

truehappiness 27th July 2019 06:32 PM

Don't want her to date Pei.

orbitalaspect 31st July 2019 12:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan (Post 3303957)
Imagine excusing sexual abuse of teenagers who aren't mature enough to enter sexual relationships with adults and who are, on top of that, dependent on the adult in every aspect when it comes to their future career and their finances. Imagine excusing an adult fucking a teen when they should be mentoring the teen instead.
Imagine typing so much predatory shit out and actually pretending it's just about two adults having sex. Just wow

I have to agree here. He's an up-and-comer dating the biggest selling solo artist in Japanese history. Ayu is clearly in a position of power here, and I don't think this relationship is appropriate as long as he continues to work for her. I don't have any reservations about special treatment, but I do when it comes to the image fans and the media have of someone like Pei dating someone so high-profile. It smears their character, making them out to be a gold digger or a user.

He's waaay too young to be in this relationship. And Ayu should know better. And you guys should all know better too. It's no less risky or predatory when a woman dates a male subordinate than when a man dates a female subordinate. His entire career could be ruined by how Ayu handles things if they go sour. And I think it's clear, based on Ayu's two marriages, that she doesn't handle breakups and divorces very well at all.

Come on, Ayu, get out and meet someone with more financial and career independence. There are businessmen and investors and socialites and all sorts of other people with wealth and status all over that would be on more equal footing. Dating your employee is just ridiculous for someone in your position.

surrealA 31st July 2019 11:50 PM

what if hes gay and Ayu is just being close to him like she do with Timmy :rolleyes

we wouldnt know until she confirms it

chocopockymaster 1st August 2019 04:13 AM

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Originally Posted by surrealA (Post 3304471)
what if hes gay and Ayu is just being close to him like she do with Timmy :rolleyes

we wouldnt know until she confirms it

I don’t remember ever hearing rumors of her dating Timmy, do you? This has been floating around for a while now and I have to agree, this age/power dynamic is NOT a good look for her.

FoxyPinkGirl 1st August 2019 04:39 AM

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Originally Posted by Aderianu (Post 3303996)
Ayu is a real human and she need someone near her. To date with someone from her team is the most easy way. I don't think it's something serious, I was sure ayu's dating KO before.


How much you need to work to date with boss? %)

It’s inappropriate. Especially if she’s his boss and on her payroll. That’s a universal understanding no matter what country you’re from on the planet. It’s not okay. Plus she’s setting a bad example to her subordinates on her team (dancers, managers, band mates, etc) and at Avex. I don’t think her management nor the label steps in regarding her love life because she’s.....not as high of a ticket anymore in that it wouldn’t make that much of a difference to her career. Verses if it were like back in the late ‘90s to early ‘00s.

Chris85 1st August 2019 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by chocopockymaster (Post 3304488)
I don’t remember ever hearing rumors of her dating Timmy, do you? This has been floating around for a while now and I have to agree, this age/power dynamic is NOT a good look for her.

There were rumors about Timmy as well. They were photographed together.

wednesday 1st August 2019 09:18 PM

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Originally Posted by Aderianu (Post 3303996)
Ayu is a real human and she need someone near her. To date with someone from her team is the most easy way. I don't think it's something serious, I was sure ayu's dating KO before.


How much you need to work to date with boss? %)

Five years, I believe :yes

I’m sorry, I couldn’t resist :laugh

PinkShinigami 2nd August 2019 06:57 AM

When I was 20, I had moved to another country, I was the supervisor in a clothing store and I was trying to become pregnant. I was an adult person making adult decisions. At 23, I'm now a mother and have bought my first house.

I don't agree at all to the "teen" and "power" comments. He's a big boy and he can make his own decisions.

As for the "dating the boss" thing... Well, we see American actors dating their co-stars all the time, so why shouldn't that happen in music? I don't know how much ayu is the boss of them all - I would believe she's more just part of the team. Also, how many other people do ayu actually meet, other than those she's the boss of? It would be sad if she should let a potential romance down just because they're working together - especially when it's probably limited how much time she spends with people who are not her coworkers. Also, it would be great for her to have someone she could actually "live in" with. If she finds someone outside her team, they'd probably not see each other very often.

And it it's dangerous for his career.. Well, it's his own choice.


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