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How people in Japan are receiving the news?
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When I checked the unread count was 466 (and I last came less than 24 hours ago), I had a thought something was big...
...and then all of a sudden - looking at this, I'm surprised. :thud I have no comment to say. I mean, engaged to some guy studying at UCLA? Uhh... |
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Congratulations to ayu! :heart
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who are you to say that she's better with THIS or THAT person? she's 35 yo! i get it if you're worried about her, but what can we do? she's freaking 35 yo already!! and huge age gap shouldn't make any problem! age is just number! whether this relationship works or not, it's none of our business, it's ayu's problem! like somebody else have said, i think it makes sense that ayu seems rush in every relationship she has had for the past 3 years because she's running out of time, she wants to feel in love. |
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btw congrats ayu and wish u all the best. Happily ever after.. |
if this guy is rich then Ayu has gotten herself a good catch :P
in Singapore's context, and assuming she's my close friend I'd call her a SPG (Sarong Party Girl), an Asian (more Singaporean) lady who has a preference to Caucasian men, lol. hoping to see a lavish wedding with all their close friends... not a rushed matter like Mannie's. most importantly I REALLY TRULY hope she's happy with this and it'd last. I may have my reservations and cynicism but we can't say anything if she's honestly happy :yes |
I think since she had those mini health scares of sorts in 2007/2008~ she's been a lot more relaxed and on the lookout for love than ever before.
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Sigh. I hope, I really hope this turns out well.
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I have a feeling this time the guy actually came from a good background, like rich family. If he's introduced by Cristophe who's also a class on his own. Compare to coughmanniecough whom she picked herself.
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In this modern time, some people still think that an age gap in a relationship won't get nowhere or fail... how sad.
Its more in the person it self. If both can understand each other, compromise each other, then I guess it doesn't really matter. And why does some people ALWAYS think that when his or her economy status is not like his or her partner, then there's always a hidden (economy, status, whatever) motive behind their relationship? How can these people be so shallow. I know that everything can be happen in this mud ball, but come on! Give it a chance will ya! If their partner become well know, its because the paparazi, and mostly because people curiosity. If he get fame by that, then its the consequences he get. Not because he want it. |
10 years really is like nothing. I think a lot of the diva american artists have had larger age gaps, yes?
Anyway, I'm 24 and if Ayu wanted to get it on with me I'd consider that a blessing! |
People are so rude.
Hoping he comes from money? Just because Ayu has money? It's not like she comes from *actual* money. She has no status, except what she earned for herself. Her family comes from nothing. She is new money. |
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Ayu has been through so much in the relationship department... I really hope things work out for her this time.
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I hope she can be happy with this guy, but ayu if you keep your musical career, please don't forget your schedule and your agreements.
I'm sure she can have a husband and a musical career at the same time (just look at Kuu) |
Fuck my life...I'm actually really jealous right now. You broke my heart Ayu.
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I'm happy for her. Wish her all the happiness. I want to see her beautiful smile because she is in love.
I know some here think it is bad timing. But with release for every month since when? September? October? Then when is the 'best time' you think she needs to announce? After CDL? Isn't it will affect PRAY? So after PRAY? What if she announce for new album or AT? Then next year? two years later? Or just keep it silence? The magazine got the news first then Ayu needs to tell in TA, her fans mad - Maro case. She just announced she married with Mannie - her fans mad. She announced she engaged to that man - her fans mad. LOL, Ayu...are you happy to share the good news with your fans? About the age gap. I don't think it is a big gap. Both are adults. Yes, I can see they might face time problem. One is an artist in Japan. One is a doctor soon to be. From what I see in drama and in reality, doctor is a super busy man especially the first five years so I hope Ayu and that man know how to deal with it. It's their problem. I just hope they can fix it. |
No offense. The number 25 and 35 gets me attention. That boy looks older and ayu looks younger.
So that balances off. |
People are giving that age example too much life. Jeez.
15, 5, 25. The point was there are cases where age does matter because someone ignorantly stated that it NEVER matters. No one jumped down that person's throat though. Stans. |
Oh God,
ayumi hamasaki new album Never LOVE again-- I can see it. Homegirl can do whatever she wants but srsly, needs to just keep it under wrap like she managed to do for YEARS. She looks crazy hot in those photos though. |
Hope all the people that said that they are done with Ayu just go away from here ..
Anyway, I hope just the best for them two as a couple. Is Ayu's life and we can do nothing about it, congrats Ayu!! ( I just wish she waits to get married at least another year so she has all her time for a new album :love) |
Tbh I thought it was like: once both people are over 20, it's all fair game.
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LOL hope she has fun with her 3 day marriage. The medical student population at this school is totally cutthroat, back-stabby, and self-centered ; he's just using her to pay off his big ass loans....which is kind of genius tbh. Then again, I might get to see her walking around campus. Interesting. :popcorn |
I just want Ayu to be happy, really. I'm glad she kept this new relationship private, she seems to have learned from her past mistakes of shoving her current boyfriend down her fans throats. As long as she keeps releasing and won't retire any time soon, it's all fine by me. :yes
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End of 2008 was when she injured her wrist before she filmed Rule as well, right?
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edit: not wrist but she broke her fingers http://i.imgur.com/687DQCu.jpg http://i.imgur.com/z2C1PVD.jpg from making of PCDL 08-09 |
I hope this guy is true love of Ayuchan. Anyway Ayuchan is happy, I'm happy too :D
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Thank you truehappiness and AyuWorld for the infos.
I didn´t read her full interview on Numero Tokio. Poor Ayu. She is so responsable and has determination. I admire her very much, like a professional and person. |
Wow...some opinions here are really ridiculous.
Seriously, just because Ayu is beautiful, she has to marry a handsome man? Come on people...what is going on with you? Love doesn't work that way! Isn't it beautiful of Ayu, that she doesn't care what her man looks like? That she also values other things? Besides..Everyone has a different taste in men. I think he is quite cute and handsome. And the age gap? 10 years are nothing. And age doesn't say anything about your behaviour. Grow up!! |
For some reason, I already saw this coming for months!
But all those negative comments are just ridiculous. A lot of people here always has an issue with anything she does. I'm just shocked that the guy's 25... I mean, I knew he was younger but not THAT young. Oh well, most white people age fast anyway... |
I can't believe there are people here who actually think she needs to marry a Japanese man because she is Japanese. You can't deny that that is completely racist.
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Well this post shows that there's still room for progress about men/women equality.
Men can go out with women half their age and nobody annoys them about it telling they're making a mistake because of age difference blahblah. And it's only 10 years. She's no Liz Taylor yet. |
Her taste in men is disappointing
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ayu: Age is just a number.
AHS member: yeah right. Jail is just a room. HAHA Fandom |
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What a boring life some people around here probably have... |
>_> she's not engaged to a 15 year old, jeeez.... there's no crime in there folks, u're making a big deal out of nothing! they are both adults...my gosh....
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Congratulations.
My only concern is that he is aesthetically pleasing, because I like it when aesthetically pleasing people get together. I'm superficial. He looks good in his tux. Nice teeth. Good facial symmetry. Exudes masculinity and self-confidence. Carries himself well and has taste in clothes. Studying to be a doctor? Commendable ambition. Now can I get some awesome music, please? |
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Congrats Ayu!!
Now I'm waiting for a proper Love songs episode ii <3 |
But how is Ayu's english?? It'll be hard to live with someone if you have language barrier. I don't think her english is that great is it?
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dasdasdafa LMAO AYU
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I imagine that Ayu´s English is good now, but I don´t know if you remember that Mannie said that Ayu´s English was bad and was difficult to him understand her.
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Well, I'm happy for her and I hope that this is the relationship that sticks. I'm not gonna lie, I don't have the highest hopes (although, she didn't announce this one like her last couple, so points for that), but I certainly don't want it to fail.
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she's been having quite some time in LA/ouside of Japan, so i think her english should be pretty decent by now, i mean at least to the point where she can cary an easy going convesation, and i am sure her accent isn't that bad anymore.
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http://i.imgur.com/OqRy5Jn.jpg I think before, she was in easygoing/casual conversation mode (2006-2008) but now she's at the very least on a level where she could live comfortably on her own in an English speaking area without an interpreter or anything. Quote:
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^ thanks for sharing the tell all lyric.
i love her writing. it's very neat. I'm sure her english is getting more and more improved considering the amount of time she has been spending with Christophe. how i wish she'll do another asia tour, because i wanna hear her to converse with english. |
Omg. People stay trippin...
as if ayu's a damn pedophile. Clearly most people wouldn't agree with her being with someone who isn't of age. Most people aren't thinking of that when they say age doesn't matter. They're thinking of this case. Two adults. It really doesn't. |
You know, I've been biting my tongue cuz I've been bitching about this whole thing too - not the age gap, but other things...
To the people who have a problem with their age? My boyfriend and I are 18 years apart and are quite happy. So y'all need to sit the fuck down. |
It's possible to discuss this without getting aggressive. Report posts that are unnecessary and please try and keep posts respectful if wanting to continue the thread.
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this is so random.. i dont really see anything positive out of this, but I wouldn't say anything bad and I wish them all the best.
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polka-dot-jewel brought up a good point on Twitter yesterday that I don't think anybody's thought of yet: he's a medical student. He'll never see her assuming he'll be a doctor. Though she has been in LA a lot recently, it's only because she doesn't have anything major going on right now. What'll happen when she goes on tour? It's not like he can go see her during it, because again, schooling and his profession. When I thought about this, I kinda understand people's wish for her to find someone Japanese; at least if the person has a decent job, they won't have to travel THAT far to be with her. It's pretty much the same issues she had with Mannie. I don't see this working - unless she plans on retiring soon after all and living in her house in LA.
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^I understand this point of view...though I don't really agree
But I mean, sometimes people have to deal with that kind of thing. There are people who are in the military who sometimes cannot see their partners for a very long time, but they maintain successful relationships. Children and all. I don't think people should have to limit themselves to someone within their own country. |
Yeah, I only hope that they're aware of this going into the engagement/marriage, unlike Mannie - and Ayu too. Didn't she say the calls/emails were getting old between them at one point? I get the feeling Ayu needs interaction more than most in a relationship.
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whether this relationship is going to work out or not, i guess that we should just let ayu to decide, she's the person who's gonna walk through this path, since she already has one experience with Mannie, so I just hope she has thought through about all the possibilities and consequences that may happen again. I just wish the best for ayu and the fiancee.
and if this means that ayu is going to retire for 1-2 years to live with the fiancee abroad, i'm happy for that, she deserves it, tbh. she can enjoy the normal life she has never had before, and along the way, she may have new inspirations and hopefully, she'll come back with much more awesome music. I'm already ready for her indefinite hiatus. though she has always said that she'll be making music forever.. we'll just get to wait and see.. only time will tell.. |
I think the more likely scenario is that he will try to fly to Japan when he is free and she will try to fly to LA when she is not touring. It'll probably be more of the latter, but she was essentially in LA when she wasn't on tour this year.
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Ok madonna.
Yep Madonna's ex was 25 too. |
^ but ayu's no fossil likke Madinno.
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if she's gonna be away for long in Japan like touring etc then they just gotta make it up with more sex when she's back. oops.
or maybe he will be a doctor in Japan. |
Did she find true love with this one?
That means ... less ballads.. and more upbeat and happy songs... Nooooooooo!!!!!!!!! Just joking. I'm happy for Ayu. I hope he's the one. He looks like a lovely gentlemen. |
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And yeah, that IS assuming he'll be a traditional type of doctor who works in a hospital. We have no idea what he's actually studying, just that he's at the medical school. AND if he does come from a wealthy family, or has other people in his family that are already established in whatever medical field, he could be like, working out of a private office, maybe only seeing however many clients he wants to a day. He might even only have select clientele that is full of celebrities. They ARE in Beverly Hills. People go to private institutions lol It's extremely different from the type of doctor we see on tv or something. Quote:
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I wish her the best
but I give it 6 months tops |
:spazzed And it's that time of year again! :spazzed Who's got June, or October, maybe it'll make it one year until next Christmas. Anything is possible when you're the Queen of Jpop! |
Betting pool is a bad idea, so many people are gonna get pissed.
And put me down for May! |
stans are always getting pissy about everything lol
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Tomoya is a different case as they knew each other since young... So I believe their love is more true. Ayu should get back with tomoya, knowing each other since 15 and having a 7 year relationship proved they are quite serious with each other... |
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Who cares?
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I expect her to go on hiatus next year.
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omg! More songs about love for at least one year, I think I'll throw up.
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I actually think it's good to have some rest :P
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be ready for her next studio album: LOVE ~Act III.~
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I've also always wondered about Ayu and Tomoya's relationship. I got the impression that Ayu was incredibly busy during most of the years they were together (tours, lots of TV performances, ~3 singles and a new album practically every year, magazines, AyuReady? etc.), and what with Tomoya also being an artist, and in addition to that, Johnny's strict rules about the love lives of their stars, I wonder how much time Ayu and Tomoya actually got to spend together as a proper couple. Even though their relationship lasted a long time, it doesn't mean that it was her most serious relationship. Though these are just personal speculations, and I can't claim to know anything about how Ayu felt back then or feels right now, or will feel in the future. I'll just have to trust that she knows her own feelings well enough to make the best decisions for her. |
I was a bit "lol...again?" when I read the news but I genuinely wish her all the best.
I'm surprised at the comments on the age gap as that wasn't something I noticed when reading the article. 10 years is nothing nowadays. |
lol my mom was dating a guy for 6-7 years but she ended up marrying my dad who she knew only for a few months, they are together for more than 25 years...staph that crap, really...
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I don't think she could ever go on hiatus.
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I would've never expected a hiatus either, but didn't she mention after she wed Mannie there were talks of moving to us permanently and suspending music activities?
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I hope she's happy. |
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The Ayu that we know would never suspend her activities, I think. |
Someone poasted of fb pictures of the news of Ayu's engagement on Fb, im not sure is that Zip or Mezamashi news.
but seriously lol they seems doing a research and looks so interesting about it, they even showed UCLA's view and also mentioned about Mannie and Abizou (her friend that she talked about in her ameba blog,hes a kabouki actor where they went to the same high school) |
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