If the thing about her brother is true, it still wouldn't really be her fault...
She could have a good reason to run out of the house, and her brother's death would have been an accident anyway~
I didn't even know she had a deceased brother o_o
But yeah, when the whole Closed Note thing happenned I didn't stop liking her either, and felt like people were blowing it out of proportion~ but after that bad image of her being hammered in my head by media&haters, it just made her relationship seem suspicious, even if there was no evidence and stuff XD That's why I said I was influenced by it - I was just trying to clear up that I'm not against relationships with an age difference~