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Originally Posted by LacusClyne
^girl, or are you a boy? If you don't mind me asking this, as I'm a little worried for you....
I think you are a new fan and is trying to collect some ayu's stuff, but you seem to be buying quite a lot of items in a short time... Is your budget okay?
And when you buy them, are you really sure you want them? Not just because they are first press and collector items.
I had seen new ayu fans buying too many items in a short time and end up regretting later, either they don't need it or they went to fast into ayu craze and the craze died down within a year.... I don't want you going too fast and regret your decision in time...(>_<)
especially if you are still a student, it's hard to save. When I was a new ayu fan, I just start by getting her albums. It was till 2005 when I start buying her singles. My collection is huge, but I spend 9 years getting them, that's why when I see new fans buying too much, I'm worried for their pockets!!!
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Hello! I don't mind you asking at all. I think it's actually a good thing to ask because you can't really tell anyone's gender here unless they state it or have a pic of themselves in their avatar or signature. I'm a girl. But anyways, I completely, 100% agree with you. I have been buying a lot in a short period of time and I've come to the realization that I REALLY do need to slow down. I even asked for someone to slap me on my wrists for buying so much not too long ago. When you get to the point where you're asking someone to punish you, that's when you know it's bad. I certainly don't want to burn myself out on Ayu in a short period of time or have any regrets so I'm really taking to heart what you're saying. And I would like to personally thank you so much for really taking the time to share your thoughts with me about my buying. Some people just need to be told no sometimes and this is one of those times for me so I'm really happy you said something. It makes me feel really good to know that someone cares enough about me to take the time to point all of this out and save me from having regrets and possibly being broke. I was in a bad financial situation last week fortunately, just about everything I was selling on eBay sold last night so I have money now. But I never want to end up in that situation again because my savings account was hit a little and I don't want to spend any of that. As far as what's supposed to be coming, I've decided that I'm going to take it slow as well. I'm going to listen to one CD at a time and stay focused on it for awhile before I listen to the others. Same with DVDs and other Ayu items. I really just want to enjoy everything.