You guys are not getting the point about Neme at all.
You really think she's attention seeking?
You guys are the ones who give her attention.
Nemesisyume does what she wants, when she wants, at whatever whim she has, and it has nothing to do with any of you. She couldn't care less about you, or any consequences to any of her actions.
That's Nemes. Think about it.
In any case, yes, you guys are acting like she killed a baby seal. And she didn't. She was just being herself.
I never said I was going to defend her, nor do I see her disposition as an excuse for her behavior.
I just said, it's not that big a deal.
But don't worry about it. The reaction was expected.