Hikki tweets:
I "visited" my grandparents today at the NY Buddhist Church. Held the urns that hold their bones' ashes. It was kinda like holding a baby. It was something I'd wanted to do for a long time. I'd like to be cremated too, and be held by my children and grandchildren after I die 
edit: and her next tweet kinda made me smile, even though it's serious business:
They're also in Japan. Good thing about ashes RT @XmanNYC71: surprised your grandparents ashes were in NY. I thought they'd be in japan.