If people are overly concerned about her private life news, it could be helpful to stop reading AHS and the like. Just buy the music and ignore the news, so there is nothing to worry about. Sometimes I wonder if I should do this.
Back in the days when I discovered Ayu, I just had her music. Nothing else, except of a few pictures I grabbed with google. This was my time of fandom, when Ayu was still different from now because my attitude towards her was uninfluenced by the news, opinions, paparazzi images etc of the internet.
I do not mean to say "get out of here!", it is simply a well meant cause for thought to anyone who really feels desperately uncomfortable with Ayu's recent ongoings.
Alas I am too weak to be disciplined enough xD But if you are, give it a try and just live the music, not the news and rumors. Stay away from sources that ruin your illusion of the singer you feel connected with
