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Originally Posted by Zeke.
Usually people who don't like conflict just don't know how to handle situations properly or are unable to back-up their own beliefs and/or outlook. However, you did an amazing job! You brought up valid points and I believe your mentality was supported more-so than your opponents (this isn't anything personal against TeamAyu2004, I'm just trying to point out the fact that you handled the conflict extremely well).
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Thank you for this. I also want to apologize for going a bit overboard because I was quite emotional yesterday. This was very kind of you and it made me feel a lot better (I didn't really feel that my mentality was supported more because I wrongly read some of the stuff posted).
@Tom Punks
Yeah, I realized too late that you didn't mean me. I also took your "Mrrrowww" as trying to make fun of me (seeing as it was right after my post) which was weird seeing as you seemed to agree it's not right to be rude. Which is basically what at first made me think you were referring to me (I was quite baffled on TeamAyu2004's posts yesterdays and couldn't really think straight for a while). I think I shouldn't let people get to me this much, lol.
@TeamAyu2004
We are all for having a mature, adult discussion here. But do you really think you are going to achieve that by calling someone a baby and saying that they are "bitching" after they tell you their opinion? Let me remind you that calling someone a baby is extremely condescending and it empowers the person who says these things. You are basically saying "I am better than you". And shouldn't you be treating other people as equals to you? When do you think in real life people have gotten along well or even lead a normal discussion on something if one person calls the other a "baby"?
Also, the reason I mention mentally sick people is because you seem to be fond of telling people to "get over it" and seem to think it's very right to say. Try to look things up related to that saying. It's not as nearly mature as you seem to think it is.
There are far nicer, or even just neutral ways in saying what you mean without being condescending. I mean, you could even be nice which affects people in more positive ways and makes people think about what you said and actually agree with you.
Also, just claiming that you are the more mature one and everyone else is a child puts you in a very awkward position. It's like an intelligent person telling everyone how intelligent they are and showing it off constantly. There's something off about that, don't you think? I'll never say that you are a "child", because I don't even know you. Based on the posts you made I could make a lot of guesses about you, and none of them are positive. But I'm not going to point fingers at you just because of the few posts you made in this thread and just because I *think* that you are that way.