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Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan
If she's still struggling through the English language after all those years then her relationships with her ex-husband and husband have to be very superficial. What in the end makes her somehow superficial.
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How rude is that. You're basically judging her current and previous relationships based on the fact that she is still struggling to communicate fluently in a foreign language. I'm Brazilian and I use English on a daily basis in an academic setting but I still have problems communicating with my American husband at home even though I've been here for a year. I believe that people almost have different "personalities" in each language they speak, and it's really hard to express yourself properly and "translate" your true self in different idioms. I think your comment was reductive and it bothered me a lot.
Also, I didn't read the rest of your gigantic post because I got like:
