ayu's twitter thread ~part 17~

[Bigtop]

twitter
http://twitter.com/ayu_19980408

weibo
http://weibo.com/2291250415

Let's keep that London discussions going...

[asmAyumi1992]

lol didn't realized it's already need a new thread

[Mari-chan]

Originally Posted by Suteisi

But... what is Ayu doesn't want kids? EVER?

My sister has decided a long time ago that she would not have kids, and so she's 39 and doesn't have any kids, and she doesn't plan to have any in the future either.

Having kids is not for everyone. It's not because a majority of people have kids that it's something everyone HAS to do.

It's a CHOICE.

I find it kind of disturbing that you think people should have kids as if it's life or death kind of thing....

Thanks for this comment. I share absolutly your opinion.
Not everyone wanna have kids. It is a Choice, as you said right.
If she don't wanna have kids ever.. it is fine. It is her life.. and she can do, whatever she want.
And belive me.. it is not really nice to hear always "You have no kids? Why?" Why nobody ask "You have kids, why?"
So... maybee, she is not the type to have childeren. People also can have a happy life, without kids.

[jon_the_d]

And belive me.. it is not really nice to hear always "You have no kids? Why?" Why nobody ask "You have kids, why?"

that's obvious; because having kids is amazing.

I know some people decide not to, and are happy with that, even when they're old and alone. But most people realize how awesome it is to have family.

The people who realize it most are the ones who have kids. Just ask your parents if you're not one.

[njanjayrp]

Originally Posted by jon_the_d

that's obvious; because having kids is amazing.

I know some people decide not to, and are happy with that, even when they're old and alone. But most people realize how awesome it is to have family.

The people who realize it most are the ones who have kids. Just ask your parents if you're not one.

While I am not sure if having kids is amazing or not, as I am not a parent I think that people have the right to decide whether they want to be parents and not by themselves and that if for any reason they think they aren't ready they shouldn't have kids at the given time. From my point of view having kids of your own isn't all that different from adopting them, so while she might not be able to have kids of her own when she turns 45 I am sure that many kids out there would be lucky to have parents.

[Mari-chan]

Originally Posted by jon_the_d

that's obvious; because having kids is amazing.

I know some people decide not to, and are happy with that, even when they're old and alone. But most people realize how awesome it is to have family.

The people who realize it most are the ones who have kids. Just ask your parents if you're not one.

That was not what I was talking about. I think, everyone has to decide for themself, if they wanna have children or not. People, who wanna have kids find it amazing having them. People who don't have, think it is amazing don't have children.
But... when I told someone.. I don't wanna have children, I always hear the question "What? Why not". So... why people don't only notice, I don't wanna have kids... ok... my decision.
I also never ask people, who have children, why they decide to have children. They wanted to have some.. so it is ok. I don't need to ask someone, why they have children.. I know why they have them.. because for them, it is amazing having children. So.. people should accept, that for me, it wouldn't be amazing, having kids.
But everybody asked me "Why not". That was all, I wanted to say.
I really don't judge on someone, if they have children or not. People can do, whatever makes them happy.

For Ayu's new hair Look...it looks much better then the Style befor. I never was a fan of it. But.. I really hoped, she let it grow again.
But ok... it is much better than befor... from what I can see on the pic.

[jon_the_d]

Also, if you hadn't already found it, here's the planned March Route for Weds.

Obviously the trouble makers may also break away to nearby areas... so be aware.

also somethign about a taxi driver strike...

[minamitan]

she just posted something on twitter!!! I don't really know japanese but google translate says she's now in Heathrow Airport!

[OyTony]

New hair. =)

[Bigtop]

Originally Posted by OyTony

New hair. =)

I'm not sure about this, but sure her hair definitely looks short here...

And based on the pyjamas that Ayu was wearing, she was flying first class on British Airways...

[love in music]

Originally Posted by OyTony

New hair. =)
http://img217.imageshack.us/img217/5400/x293416c0.jpg

gosh, she keeps releasing pics where I think it's her worst most unflattering picture ever, but then a new one comes out and takes its place.

[panda♥]

Originally Posted by love in music

gosh, she keeps releasing pics where I think it's her worst most unflattering picture ever, but then a new one comes out and takes its place.

the only thing wrong with that picture is the fish lips, as usual. other than that she looks perfectly fine.

[channy]

[Misa-chan]

Originally Posted by channy

I'm assuming that was the point.

[Zeke.]

Maybe she is not done living her life yet. Ayu is very selfless, but for how many years now, it's always been about her. People answer to her and she has much power in the industry and much control over her career and personal life. If she were to have kids, all of that would change. Ayu would then basically have to answer to someone else and people would no longer be on her time, she would be on someone else's.

I am only 22 years old, and I am in no hurry to have children. Even when fellow high school classmates have gotten married and many of them having children (during high school and shortly after), it makes me realize I want to live my own life before I begin to center myself around someone else. Maybe when I'm in my mid-30s. But I want to enjoy my youth.

[Suteisi]

Originally Posted by Zeke.

I am only 22 years old, and I am in no hurry to have children. Even when fellow high school classmates have gotten married and many of them having children (during high school and shortly after), it makes me realize I want to live my own life before I begin to center myself around someone else. Maybe when I'm in my mid-30s. But I want to enjoy my youth.

This is what I think exactly.

Also, I don't know much about Ayu's past, but it doesn't seem like she had such a great childhood. Maybe she just doesn't want to put a child through something difficult. Maybe she's worried she won't be a good mom, etc. I've seen TONS of bad parents, working in the mental health industry, and believe me, not every parent is a good parent, and parents can be the worse for their children. Scars and traumatizes them for life. It's horrible.



AAAANNYWAY.

I'm sure nobody in the UK knew when she was going to land, she did not say when she was going to arrive, so how could any body know ??

[~Amy~]

Originally Posted by Suteisi

But... what is Ayu doesn't want kids? EVER?

My sister has decided a long time ago that she would not have kids, and so she's 39 and doesn't have any kids, and she doesn't plan to have any in the future either.

Having kids is not for everyone. It's not because a majority of people have kids that it's something everyone HAS to do.

It's a CHOICE.

I find it kind of disturbing that you think people should have kids as if it's life or death kind of thing....

I totally agree with this post. This is very well said.

Originally Posted by Suteisi

This is what I think exactly.

Also, I don't know much about Ayu's past, but it doesn't seem like she had such a great childhood. Maybe she just doesn't want to put a child through something difficult. Maybe she's worried she won't be a good mom, etc. I've seen TONS of bad parents, working in the mental health industry, and believe me, not every parent is a good parent, and parents can be the worse for their children. Scars and traumatizes them for life. It's horrible.



AAAANNYWAY.

I'm sure nobody in the UK knew when she was going to land, she did not say when she was going to arrive, so how could any body know ??

We'll see, it's up to Ayumi if she wants to have kids or not. I think she's really busy right now. I wonder what she's up to in the UK... Hopefully she get's some rest, she does seem like she's been kind of tired lately. >.<

[jon_the_d]

I guess no-one's there to greet her?

BAD UK!!! BAD!!

[Dolly_FACE]

^ If i could "like" your post i so would! Ha!

[clover_bali]

Ayu will go to UK and ayu said about it in twitter / Weibo,
if ayu will go to BALI, she's not say anything about it!
She's not reply our question about when we meet her in BALI.
#IRONIC!