Ayu's social networks - Discussion #54

[melissalove]

Originally Posted by chocopockymaster

The scan is too low-res for me to read the caption on the bottom right but the headline mentions them wearing couples’ rings as well

how sweet

[AyuWorld]

Originally Posted by chocopockymaster

The scan is too low-res for me to read the caption on the bottom right but the headline mentions them wearing couples’ rings as well

Couple ring is her thing,she got them for maro and tyson too,iirc

[Aderianu]

page with article

[EndOfTheWorld]

Suddenly I’m reminded of how gross men are.
It’s a bit odd that just a moment ago there was a moral outrage over, nothing actually. I don’t see any comments here that are angry or highly critical of Ayu over this and still people got on their soapbox. But yet 20 year olds are “the best” and are only good for sex because they are dumb, is a casual conversation.🤢

[Deep snow]

lol I'm still not sure if I should take the news of their relationship seriously I always thought it was a joke somebody made up?

[Party_King]

Just a small thought: my boyfriend is 41 years old (two months younger than Ayu) and I just turned 27. We’ve been a couple for almost 6 years and our life together works without any bigger problems. So, age doesn’t necessarily have to be a hurdle if two adults truly love each other. Honesty and willingness to compromise is, however, absolutely necessary ... and of course the minds (characters) have to fit together to stick around for a long time relationship...
So maybe we should let Ayu & Pei find out if they meant to be together or not.
If not, it won’t be a drama and —of course— it’s not our part to take any judgements about it...

[Chibi-Chan]

Pei is way too young to be an adult from an emotional point of view. He also is in a relationship of dependency towards her. Pei isn't even 20, if Iremember right. He's not an adult. Real adults want partners they can talk to, partners who've shared their life experience. Being older means seeing things someone being basically a teenager simply can't see yet. When you're younger yourself you probably don't see it that way, everyone that age thinks they're mature enought. But there is so much you haven't experienced yet but that is central to being an adult and to have a mutual benefitting relationship. Just because it is legal to date a 19 year old doesn't mean you should do it. If you're 40 and you're dating a teen there is something seriously wrong with you.
This photo looks fake to me, but if this turns out to be really true, I will seriously question if she has gone insane and probably lose all respect for her.

[njanjayrp]

Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan

Pei is way too young to be an adult from an emotional point of view. He also is in a relationship of dependency towards her. Pei isn't even 20, if Iremember right. He's not an adult. Real adults want partners they can talk to, partners who've shared their life experience. Being older means seeing things someone being basically a teenager simply can't see yet. When you're younger yourself you probably don't see it that way, everyone that age thinks they're mature enought. But there is so much you haven't experienced yet but that is central to being an adult and to have a mutual benefitting relationship. Just because it is legal to date a 19 year old doesn't mean you should do it. If you're 40 and you're dating a teen there is something seriously wrong with you.
This photo looks fake to me, but if this turns out to be really true, I will seriously question if she has gone insane and probably lose all respect for her.

I do agree with the first part of your post, however I still think that if they are both having fun and are happy they shouldn’t be judged for that. You learn by making mistakes, so if this blows up Pei will have a valuable lesson of not getting involved with his boss again!

[indigochild]

Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan

This photo looks fake to me, but if this turns out to be really true, I will seriously question if she has gone insane and probably lose all respect for her.

You'll lose "all respect for her" because of who she chooses to bang in the bedroom? Imagine typing this out and actually being serious about it. How embarrassing!

[BlackSilence]

Has anyone thought about a thing where she usually holds a hand of a staff member to "not get lost in a crowd"? `i mean there is no crowd but just a thought....

however i frankly don't give a crap, she can date whomever she wants.

[pedronekoi]

Keep talking about her relationship because it speaks more about who you are then Ayu's relationship. I can't with all this conservative, prejudiced and stereotyped talking...

[LOGMAN]

Originally Posted by pedronekoi

Keep talking about her relationship because it speaks more about who you are then Ayu's relationship. I can't with all this conservative, prejudiced and stereotyped talking...

This.

[love in music]

Originally Posted by pedronekoi

Keep talking about her relationship because it speaks more about who you are then Ayu's relationship. I can't with all this conservative, prejudiced and stereotyped talking...

Same I was like wtf even people on this forum who sometimes post smart discussions/posts have posted some really weird stuff about this topic, actually surprised me.

I don't care what she does in her personal life as long as she's being safe and is happy. It probably isn't something serious, but who is to say she wants or needs something serious to be happy? Also, real love is amazing but sometimes people aren't fortunate enough to ever find it, even if they've got a lot going for them like ayu does, so they settle on what they can get, because it's a hell of a lot better than nothing.

[Rajma]

OMG.... SO.... SINCE JANUARY?

[adantatu2]

If he is an adult, it's fine, I just don't want legal issues for ayu.

[EndOfTheWorld]

There is so much I could say about this but I would get too heated and it's not worth it honestly. But anyway.
I may not be a mod but, this whole thing doesn't even belong in this thread. I don't know why it was posted here since it has nothing to do with Ayu's social media. This photo came from a magazine not Ayu's social networks. In fact it didn't come from social media at all so..

[jbrat2219]

I don't care who she's dating. What's this about new music?!

[attractive nausea]

Has anyone who understands japanese researched how the fans/general public/haters reacted to this article? Did it spark attention or nobody cared? lol

[tokyoxjapanxfan]

Originally Posted by attractive nausea

Has anyone who understands japanese researched how the fans/general public/haters reacted to this article? Did it spark attention or nobody cared? lol

I haven’t seen any major interest, though I also haven’t looked for it.
I’m sure there are many fans who’d prefer she wasn’t dating a dancer, because any show you go to you now have to see them both. Plus, he already wasn’t on the best terms with fans after being caught smoking underage. Ayu coming to his defense looks even more like a personal one than a professional one.

Ayu does seem to have a very hard time meeting and relating to people outside her bubble, and for that I worry.

She doesn’t appear to have many friends outside of her troupe. (Appear being the keyword—obviously I don’t know.)

[AyuFan2008]

He is too young. What they want in life, their maturity levels, emotional maturity, it's far too vastly separated. Once in a blue moon, an age gap like this works, I wish her a miracle but in truth, Ayu makes terrible love life choices.

It isn't about us the fans btw, the only person lined up to be hurt is Ayu and I don't want that. I wish her nothing but happiness.