Well, I mean, personally, I'm not averse to talking negatively about delicate subjects. I think we are entitled to say what we feel and what we think.
But I do feel that people have taken some things and run with them.
I would understand the conflict of thinking that, Ayu has contradicted herself by saying her private life is private...but personally, I don't really feel there has been a contradiction.
I also...wouldn't think badly of her, because she does these things for PR. Being a celebrity is difficult. Hell, it's difficult enough to manage privacy and sanctity in our own lives, let alone with millions watching us.
Although, if what I'm thinking about the Mannie situation is true...I might judge her a bit for that

But at the same time...I've hurt people, I've done things.
How can I really cast any stones? And especially at someone like her. For what she is to me, at least.
Of course everyone feels differently about her.