Jpopsuki freeleech?

[Chiharo]

You act as if your life philosophy is the only thing that's right in the world, and you force it on everyone else. Let me remind you where you insulted me: You called me a baby, a child, told me to "get over it", and also told me to "stop bitching". So apparently my opinion is bitching, and what you say is wisdom unable to be moved by anything. I really don't want this to be unpleasant. I'm a person who hates conflict, and I knew that somewhere along the road someone like you might have appeared after I posted what I did. Which is why I usually avoid posting anything. If this makes you think I'm an immature baby, so be it. No one is perfect. People are different.

Yes, I agree life is unfair, and I agree not everyone can get along, and it's good to be unmoved by certain things. But as you said yourself, there are over 7 billion people in this world, and ultimately everyone is different. What doesn't affect you might affect someone else in ways you couldn't imagine. Are you saying they don't have the right to feel the way they do? They should get over it? What would you say to people who are trying to end their life at this very moment? Don't you think there is a chance a simple name calling would be able to trigger awful things in someone, which they can't control? Not everyone is "strong". Actually, no, there is no human being that is "strong" in this world. You are weak, I am weak, we all are weak and flawed. Telling anyone to "get over it" isn't going to help them. Do you want to tell that to mentally sick people? People with all kinds of disorders and problems with self-esteem? Those are real. Because what you are telling the other person in exchange for feeling superior over them is "You are alone". And we all know how awful this is to the core. That's why I wish we could treat each other more gently.

Now, you might not be this kind of person. That is great and amazing. You can go ahead and laugh at me, as well as anyone else can and be even more condescending. I'm just asking you to consider these things and I apologize if I offended you in any way. I also apologize for being off topic.

[milky_way]

Well, this got ugly quick.

[Tom Punks]

Ironically, some people don't know how to practice what they preach and ~let it go~.

[Chiharo]

Whatever, I'm ~letting it go~, as the cool people here would say.

[Tom Punks]

^ Not you, him. lol

[Zeke.]

Originally Posted by Chiharo

You act as if your life philosophy is the only thing that's right in the world, and you force it on everyone else. Let me remind you where you insulted me: You called me a baby, a child, told me to "get over it", and also told me to "stop bitching". So apparently my opinion is bitching, and what you say is wisdom unable to be moved by anything. I really don't want this to be unpleasant. I'm a person who hates conflict, and I knew that somewhere along the road someone like you might have appeared after I posted what I did. Which is why I usually avoid posting anything. If this makes you think I'm an immature baby, so be it. No one is perfect. People are different.

Yes, I agree life is unfair, and I agree not everyone can get along, and it's good to be unmoved by certain things. But as you said yourself, there are over 7 billion people in this world, and ultimately everyone is different. What doesn't affect you might affect someone else in ways you couldn't imagine. Are you saying they don't have the right to feel the way they do? They should get over it? What would you say to people who are trying to end their life at this very moment? Don't you think there is a chance a simple name calling would be able to trigger awful things in someone, which they can't control? Not everyone is "strong". Actually, no, there is no human being that is "strong" in this world. You are weak, I am weak, we all are weak and flawed. Telling anyone to "get over it" isn't going to help them. Do you want to tell that to mentally sick people? People with all kinds of disorders and problems with self-esteem? Those are real. Because what you are telling the other person in exchange for feeling superior over them is "You are alone". And we all know how awful this is to the core. That's why I wish we could treat each other more gently.

Now, you might not be this kind of person. That is great and amazing. You can go ahead and laugh at me, as well as anyone else can and be even more condescending. I'm just asking you to consider these things and I apologize if I offended you in any way. I also apologize for being off topic.

Usually people who don't like conflict just don't know how to handle situations properly or are unable to back-up their own beliefs and/or outlook. However, you did an amazing job! You brought up valid points and I believe your mentality was supported more-so than your opponents (this isn't anything personal against TeamAyu2004, I'm just trying to point out the fact that you handled the conflict extremely well).

[Tom Punks]

AHS should have a debate committee and Zeke can be the judge.

[adantatu2]

The guys from Jpopsuki have a weird sense of humor(just look at their polls, XD), they can sound rude sometimes, but for me that's ok. I just ignore them.

[TeamAyu2004]

Originally Posted by Tom Punks

Ironically, some people don't know how to practice what they preach and ~let it go~.

there is a difference between someone being rude and condescending and letting it go and actually having a conversation with someone. I though I was having a conversation with some adults, I was clearly wrong. Now I will let it go because this has gone beyond a simple I thought they were being rude to both of you just acting like children.

Originally Posted by Zeke.

Usually people who don't like conflict just don't know how to handle situations properly or are unable to back-up their own beliefs and/or outlook. However, you did an amazing job! You brought up valid points and I believe your mentality was supported more-so than your opponents (this isn't anything personal against TeamAyu2004, I'm just trying to point out the fact that you handled the conflict extremely well).

I don't think any of the points are valid zeke. You can't bring in things about metally sick people in a conversion about someone just being a jackass. Everything the poster said had nothing to do with the actual topic (which the entire thread has digressed so its pointless anyways).

And since when is someone telling someone else to 'get over it' as being childish? That's the most grown up thing someone can say to someone else. And I could bring in more 'valid' points if I wanted to, but like I told tom punks, there is no point too it.

[Tom Punks]

We're acting like children? You think YOU'RE acting adult? Or that any of the things YOU said were mature? Chiharo was nothing but mature and civil with you, and you spent the entire so-called adult conversation calling her a baby and belittling her for not agreeing with you, when you were being hostile for no apparent reason the entire time.

Telling someone to "get over it" is NOT mature. It's also not remotely helpful by any stretch of the imagination. And none of this was even a big deal until you came in and started acting like everyone was throwing a tantrum over one little comment. If anything, you're the one who blew it out of proportion and made it into something it wasn't. lmao.

[TeamAyu2004]

Originally Posted by Tom Punks

We're acting like children? You think YOU'RE acting adult? Or that any of the things YOU said were mature? Chiharo was nothing but mature and civil with you, and you spent the entire so-called adult conversation calling her a baby and belittling her for not agreeing with you, when you were being hostile for no apparent reason the entire time.

Telling someone to "get over it" is NOT mature. It's also not remotely helpful by any stretch of the imagination. And none of this was even a big deal until you came in and started acting like everyone was throwing a tantrum over one little comment. If anything, you're the one who blew it out of proportion and made it into something it wasn't. lmao.

You are going to have to point out where I belittle someone, because I didn't. I said the poster was acting like a child by complaining about something they should not have been complaining about because it was pointless. When the poster continued to act like a child I called the poster out on it.
And yes, that is acting like an adult. Having a conversation is being an adult. When someone (the poster) didn't like what I had to say they went off on points that had nothing to do with the conversation.
You said:

Originally Posted by Tom Punks

Mrrrowww.

everything about what the two of you are saying and acting scream childish behavior. I find it odd that a group of people are aloud to agree on something but if someone else brings facts in or a different opinion they are automatically rude just because they don't agree with the others opinion.

This I have to say is not me being rude or mean but a fact on the way you are acting. It's childish and as such I will treat you so.
Nuff said.

[Tom Punks]

OK bro.

[Chiharo]

Originally Posted by Zeke.

Usually people who don't like conflict just don't know how to handle situations properly or are unable to back-up their own beliefs and/or outlook. However, you did an amazing job! You brought up valid points and I believe your mentality was supported more-so than your opponents (this isn't anything personal against TeamAyu2004, I'm just trying to point out the fact that you handled the conflict extremely well).

Thank you for this. I also want to apologize for going a bit overboard because I was quite emotional yesterday. This was very kind of you and it made me feel a lot better (I didn't really feel that my mentality was supported more because I wrongly read some of the stuff posted).

@Tom Punks

Yeah, I realized too late that you didn't mean me. I also took your "Mrrrowww" as trying to make fun of me (seeing as it was right after my post) which was weird seeing as you seemed to agree it's not right to be rude. Which is basically what at first made me think you were referring to me (I was quite baffled on TeamAyu2004's posts yesterdays and couldn't really think straight for a while). I think I shouldn't let people get to me this much, lol.

@TeamAyu2004

We are all for having a mature, adult discussion here. But do you really think you are going to achieve that by calling someone a baby and saying that they are "bitching" after they tell you their opinion? Let me remind you that calling someone a baby is extremely condescending and it empowers the person who says these things. You are basically saying "I am better than you". And shouldn't you be treating other people as equals to you? When do you think in real life people have gotten along well or even lead a normal discussion on something if one person calls the other a "baby"?

Also, the reason I mention mentally sick people is because you seem to be fond of telling people to "get over it" and seem to think it's very right to say. Try to look things up related to that saying. It's not as nearly mature as you seem to think it is.

There are far nicer, or even just neutral ways in saying what you mean without being condescending. I mean, you could even be nice which affects people in more positive ways and makes people think about what you said and actually agree with you.

Also, just claiming that you are the more mature one and everyone else is a child puts you in a very awkward position. It's like an intelligent person telling everyone how intelligent they are and showing it off constantly. There's something off about that, don't you think? I'll never say that you are a "child", because I don't even know you. Based on the posts you made I could make a lot of guesses about you, and none of them are positive. But I'm not going to point fingers at you just because of the few posts you made in this thread and just because I *think* that you are that way.

[FIRSTKLAS]

Great posts, Chiharo.

They're very positive and constructive unlike what most of what usually gets posted here.

[Maemi]

So no freeleech this year too ? That sucks -.-

[adantatu2]

I want to download some DVDs

[tsumekaze_]

I wrote on the JPS forum and got the same answer as here, mellowb hasn't logged in 10 months nor did SYSop so.... it appears that no freeleech this year too. I wonder why is it so. After the DDos thing mods and the founder were all so eager to run the forum, plus, after almost 5 years I just can't believe they would leave it like that in the hands of the users. The site is alive just because of the few mods taking care of it and of the users uploading stuff!

[Zeke.]

Ugh, I have never participated in free leech and since summer I have been deadest On keeping a closer eye so I don't miss the next opportunity. This is heartbreaking.

[Chibi-Chan]

Mh... Since you guys are so heartbroken that there probably won't be any freeleech this year, I would give away some bonus points to some of you guys. I have a ratio of over 3 and some bonus points I don't need. So, if you write me a message and your username, I will send you a few points. But don't take my points if you have enough! I'm just offering this for people who have a very low ratio and would like to download some stuff without getting in trouble.

[Maemi]

Originally Posted by tsumekaze_

I wrote on the JPS forum and got the same answer as here, mellowb hasn't logged in 10 months nor did SYSop so.... it appears that no freeleech this year too. I wonder why is it so. After the DDos thing mods and the founder were all so eager to run the forum, plus, after almost 5 years I just can't believe they would leave it like that in the hands of the users. The site is alive just because of the few mods taking care of it and of the users uploading stuff!

They probably have some contact information/email, I guess someone should contact them and ask them to log in, at least just to allow the freeleech I have things I'd like to download but they will definitely kill my ratio