Ayu baby

[Chibi-Chan]

Originally Posted by Surreal17

Agree. What's the big deal anyways? The user who started the thread said "if she has one", and not " she needs to have children". No one is putting pressure on ayu to have kids, its her own decision and life.

People are constantly expecting women to want to have children. The user also did. It's disrespectful to every woman out there. Some women want children, some don't and some even regret having them. If in the future we want women to have children only because they REALLY want to and not because everyone puts pressure on them by talking about them having children and what it would be like if they had children, then we should stop talking about it.
Honestly, there just was the discussion women had were they told how society put all this pressure on them to have children and how they regret having children. I think this is tragic and sad.
Only because you want to have children does not mean other also do. Make a thread about how you would name or named your children. But don't make threads about other women and their non existent children.

[Machiko]

Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan

People are constantly expecting women to want to have children. The user also did. It's disrespectful to every woman out there. Some women want children, some don't and some even regret having them. If in the future we want women to have children only because they REALLY want to and not because everyone puts pressure on them by talking about them having children and what it would be like if they had children, then we should stop talking about it.
Honestly, there just was the discussion women had were they told how society put all this pressure on them to have children and how they regret having children. I think this is tragic and sad.
Only because you want to have children does not mean other also do. Make a thread about how you would name or named your children. But don't make threads about other women and their non existent children.

Some of you need to read this post

Edit: You need to understand the context and not assume people are offended because women are capable of getting pregnant. No one said that. Chibi-chan already explained it there pretty well. There's ALREADY pressure on Ayu to get pregnant and start a family, there's been rumors and all women are told their dreams are supposed to be revolved around having children. So it would be nice that when people point this out and explain it, you would sit and listen instead of turning our point into something it isn't and throwing that "lol triggered" stuff around.
It's also not about having and intention of being offensive. People are very capable of being offensive whether or not they meant it, and that's why people point it out. Whether or not they meant it, making a thread about Ayu baby names does put pressure on her to get pregnant, especially out of nowhere where she hasn't even said a thing about wanting a child.
Why dont you make a thread for dog names since dogs are clearly what Ayu wants and likes and most likely is gonna get more of in the future... and is even relevant