Ayu's social networks - Discussion #50

[Machiko]

EDIT: Oh, okay! Haha, got confused there.

[Andrenekoi]

^Oops, I was replying Luniverse before you posted and I took to long to finish my post That wasn't aimed to you.

[EndOfTheWorld]

Originally Posted by Machiko

Well...



The word 'Triggered' means insulted, upset or offended, and that's what your post above comes across as —as if we can't say anything but the "critics" can whenever and whatever and if we respond that we disagree, we're blamed for getting "triggered". If you want the conversation to not go out of topic, then how about addressing the person who changed it in the first place, who "triggered" the people who disagreed? And now you're saying that we're "preaching"? I'm so lost as to what you're trying to say because what I understand from your comments is me "putting words in your mouth" when I'm literally just pointing out what you said...

How I see it, expressing negative opinion is more than encouraged (and far more defended than positive) and the norm here, discussions very often go just people pointlessly dissing Ayu for pages without anyone coming in with a slightly more positive thought to add, so like... what. Sometimes members on this forum talk about Ayu as is they were straight up haters and that's normal.

I wasn't upset about it. Just rather confused what the big fuss was about when I thought everything was chill here. And you are misunderstanding. I'm not telling anyone to be quiet or not defend their views or Ayu. I know you want to try and pin me down as a hypocrite and make it look like I am censoring people or that free speech only applies to some and not others, but I never said anything like that. Plus I am straight up saying that isn't true, twice. As for not going after the person who started it all, that is because like I said I am not sure where this all began. Plus I am not a moderator here so I kind of don't feel like I have the authority. And yes, sometimes there are users who come off as preaching when defending Ayu, like they are above the rest of the fandom.
I would disagree. Saying nice and agreeable things is what is acceptable here. If there are a lot of critical comments happening in a thread it may just mean that whatever is being discussed at the time had a negative reception. There isn't anything wrong with that. On the other hand, if it is a bunch of rude or disrespectful comments and no one steps in, they probably do what I do and try to ignore them so that it doesn't get worse. I know what you mean by the hater comments. They make me feel confused as to why they even bother to follow Ayu when they dislike everything about her. But those types of posts are not what I try to defend because I don't like them either.

[Machiko]

I'm responding to your comments the way they were written, and how I understood them, not trying anything. I didn't and still don't understand your point what you were trying to make.

[a❤martian]

I forgot what thread I was in for a moment there

Despite this not really being the best thread for this discussion, I think its a really interesting one, and I think that users on both sides are being really insightful and respectful. I think this kind of content is what makes a forum really interesting!

My only issue is Andrenekoi accepting marriage proposals from other users. I thought you wanted me to marry you

[EndOfTheWorld]

Originally Posted by Machiko

I'm responding to your comments the way they were written, and how I understood them, not trying anything. I didn't and still don't understand your point what you were trying to make.

I guess a better way of saying the "don't get triggered" line would be that, sometimes it is better not to get upset and argue over a hollow negative comment like "Ayu should think about retiring her career is over" etc. Sometimes users post things in poor taste and I would rather see those comments ignored than treated as legitimate. When we give them attention it can cause unnecessary drama. My intention wasn't to say that those in defense were simply triggered and had nothing valuable to say.

[Andrenekoi]

Originally Posted by a❤martian

I forgot what thread I was in for a moment there

Despite this not really being the best thread for this discussion, I think its a really interesting one, and I think that users on both sides are being really insightful and respectful. I think this kind of content is what makes a forum really interesting!

My only issue is Andrenekoi accepting marriage proposals from other users. I thought you wanted me to marry you

We can be happily polyamorous <3

[Yoake]

Please don't bring back the usual fight about "who can express their opinions and who should shut up". The discussion was quite interesting and cordial until now.

As some members pointed it out, if the talk started from twitter's posts it became out of topic during the exchanges. I propose that we carry on it in the Ayu Chat room. Don't forget to stay civil and respectful.

[Aderianu]

Is ayu's hair dark again? Or they just wet and in shadow?

[AyuWorld]

So shes back in Bali in the Bvlgari Resort?

[EndOfTheWorld]

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I'm glad Ayu gets a vacation.

[Sky High]

^^^Ayu is in trouble

[EndOfTheWorld]

ティミーがビーガンチリ作りに来てくれてるから、出来上がりをひたすらフガフガ待っているわたし...🖤( つまり何もしてない笑)

#初ビーガンチリ
#ワカモレ
#フムス
#ティミーいつでも嫁いける👰🏼✨

[asamamino]

Originally Posted by AyuWorld

So shes back in Bali in the Bvlgari Resort?

Was thinking the same thing. If she is, she's just literally few kilometers from me.

[Party_King]

^ her hair is really dark again, hm?

[DonkeyKongRemix]

^I think so. She really was on a roll with it around her A ONE period. I got this feeling like she really must've learned to like having dark hair then considering how long she kept it, but who knows.

[CeReSu]

Hope it is really dark hair, I love that color on her ♥

[Evan Odinson]

Yay for dark hair, she always looks good but dark hair really suits her imo

[melissalove]

Summer dairy hair!!

[Amalgam]

Her hair is so DARK!!!
I’m happy about that, it looks great on her!