ayu's twitter thread ~part 17~

[asmAyumi1992]

I love Ayu hairstyle ! *feel like wanna do the same hairstyle xD*

[Mari-chan]

Originally Posted by jon_the_d

that's obvious; because having kids is amazing.

I know some people decide not to, and are happy with that, even when they're old and alone. But most people realize how awesome it is to have family.

The people who realize it most are the ones who have kids. Just ask your parents if you're not one.

That was not what I was talking about. I think, everyone has to decide for themself, if they wanna have children or not. People, who wanna have kids find it amazing having them. People who don't have, think it is amazing don't have children.
But... when I told someone.. I don't wanna have children, I always hear the question "What? Why not". So... why people don't only notice, I don't wanna have kids... ok... my decision.
I also never ask people, who have children, why they decide to have children. They wanted to have some.. so it is ok. I don't need to ask someone, why they have children.. I know why they have them.. because for them, it is amazing having children. So.. people should accept, that for me, it wouldn't be amazing, having kids.
But everybody asked me "Why not". That was all, I wanted to say.
I really don't judge on someone, if they have children or not. People can do, whatever makes them happy.

For Ayu's new hair Look...it looks much better then the Style befor. I never was a fan of it. But.. I really hoped, she let it grow again.
But ok... it is much better than befor... from what I can see on the pic.

[doris]

Everyone has his/her own right to choose to have children or not. Maybe it is because most people have, or want to have, children, those who don't thus look "special". Also people are always curious about why the other people think in a different way.

By the way... Actually Ayu said she would like to have both girl(s) and boy(s) in 2004 (the HEY!HEY!HEY! TV show). I dunno if she still thinks so though...

[Minttulatte]

If Ayu doesn't want children, it's her choice. She must be thinking that she can't be with them as much as she should since she works so hard.

Personally I don't want kids either because I think I wouldn't be a good mother. I can't even picture myself as a mother yet. If I change my mind someday, then I do so but right now I just think that having kids isn't my thing at all.

[~Amy~]

Originally Posted by Suteisi

But... what is Ayu doesn't want kids? EVER?

My sister has decided a long time ago that she would not have kids, and so she's 39 and doesn't have any kids, and she doesn't plan to have any in the future either.

Having kids is not for everyone. It's not because a majority of people have kids that it's something everyone HAS to do.

It's a CHOICE.

I find it kind of disturbing that you think people should have kids as if it's life or death kind of thing....

I totally agree with this post. This is very well said.

Originally Posted by Suteisi

This is what I think exactly.

Also, I don't know much about Ayu's past, but it doesn't seem like she had such a great childhood. Maybe she just doesn't want to put a child through something difficult. Maybe she's worried she won't be a good mom, etc. I've seen TONS of bad parents, working in the mental health industry, and believe me, not every parent is a good parent, and parents can be the worse for their children. Scars and traumatizes them for life. It's horrible.



AAAANNYWAY.

I'm sure nobody in the UK knew when she was going to land, she did not say when she was going to arrive, so how could any body know ??

We'll see, it's up to Ayumi if she wants to have kids or not. I think she's really busy right now. I wonder what she's up to in the UK... Hopefully she get's some rest, she does seem like she's been kind of tired lately. >.<

[Luvia]

if ayu didn't say anything about it... i think we shouldn't be jumping into conclusion or making wild guess... =) everybody~~ relax~~!

[stivenoto]

Why we still discuss about will ayu have children or not?

[MissElin_]

Originally Posted by emiko

So...has Ayu just not been on twitter since she's gone to London? Is that why we're still talking about having kids?

Lol.

But on that topic I love love love her outfit she wore on the pic she posted when she was hungry and searching for breakfast. Lovely pants and boost! ^_^

Edit: This pic! http://lockerz.com/s/154585063

[koumori]

Omg look, a photo from Ayu's Twitter which doesn't include children




I love the boots.

[jbrat2219]

I don't like kids and I dislike the thought of childbirth even more. If I change my mind, I'll adopt. There are plenty of kids who already need good homes. As for Ayu, I don't care if she has ten kids or none as long as she's happy and making music.

[Chibi-Chan]

Originally Posted by jbrat2219

I don't like kids and I dislike the thought of childbirth even more. If I change my mind, I'll adopt. There are plenty of kids who already need good homes. As for Ayu, I don't care if she has ten kids or none as long as she's happy and making music.

exactly my thoughts!

[emi♡]

So anyway...

Originally Posted by Koumori

Omg look, a photo from Ayu's Twitter which doesn't include children




I love the boots.

she's so cute! I've been seeing this picture everywhere lately lol

I wonder where she's at?

[koumori]

^ I don't know, but I love the dark tables and chairs I've got that dark theme going through my flat, works so well with cream lol

Plus the upside flower pots make me smile, I see that in so many cafes here too

[YUKARI]

this photo is so strange XD and to be honest, I don't like her outfit.

[Luvia]

Originally Posted by Koumori

Omg look, a photo from Ayu's Twitter which doesn't include children




I love the boots.

o(^▽^)o
That's a very nice boots!! I like the pants!

[miki_beland]

she wore that boots last year at LA ^^

[Kazeyomi]

Being mother it's such a wonderful thing, but it's not a priority for every human female on Earth.
As much as would be cute to see Ayu and Mannie with a child, Ayu looks more like a big sister or a young aunt for me lol.

Argh sorry I still keep feed this maternity speculation thing we should come back on topic, I guess.

On topic:

Love the pic though she reminds me a lot RnRC era.

[~Amy~]

Originally Posted by jbrat2219

I don't like kids and I dislike the thought of childbirth even more. If I change my mind, I'll adopt. There are plenty of kids who already need good homes. As for Ayu, I don't care if she has ten kids or none as long as she's happy and making music.

Originally Posted by Chibi-Chan

exactly my thoughts!

Me too!

Originally Posted by channy

The world has become way too brutal and cruel, I would not want my children to grow up on this planet anyways

Hey, if all women stop to give birth to children, from this very day on, we would be done with human population in about 105 to 110 years

Exactly, and LOL. There's about 7 billion people on the earth now.



Ayu looks cute in the picture when she's looking for something to eat. ^_^

[George]

Originally Posted by Andrenekoi

^Japan is part of the world, and the world is super-populated...

This is the most stupid thing I have read in a while.

Originally Posted by Koumori

<3

[truehappiness]

Ah, she showed off a bouquet from Metropolis Studios!

I hope she's working on a nice upbeat/ballad single~